Graduation “Exhortations”
This past week, my son graduated from high school. It was a big deal for our family, as any graduation would be. However, this was in some ways a particularly special night, since my son is our youngest, and thus—well, it will be our last high school graduation (until grandchildren come along, anyway). The weather chased us inside for the ceremony, which also afforded us one more time to walk the halls that my kids had gotten so familiar with (and which still seem like a maze to me). Mostly, it was an occasion to look back one more time before turning our attention to the future. For me, it was a chance to look back and try to bring to mind my own high school graduation—and all the things that have happened in my life since then. So, for my son—and all the other graduates out there—here are some things I wish I had known when I was your age: If you don’t speak up, people will assume you’re happy with the way things are. If you don’t love yourself, nobody else will. If you wouldn...