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Lessons, Learned

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Life has many lessons to teach us, some more painful than others — and some we’d just as soon be spared. Regardless, if you have a graduate — or if you ARE a graduate, here are some insights I’ve picked up along the way…   When it seems too good to be true, it’s generally neither good, nor true. Because you’re young(er), people are going to assume you know things you don’t — and assume you don’t know things you do. Everything you’ve heard about your elders isn’t true. But some of it is. Everything your elders think about you/your generation isn’t true. But some of it is. Never say you’ll never… (at least not out loud). If the only time your boss hears from you is when there’s trouble, don’t be surprised if they don’t look forward to your visits. The people who say “it’s not about the money” generally already have some. If you’re always the smartest person in the room, you’re probably in the wrong room. Before hitting “Reply All,” take a walk. A good reputation takes years to b...

Life’s Lessons

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Life has many lessons to teach us, some more painful than others – and some we’d just as soon be spared. But as graduates everywhere look ahead to the next chapter in their lives, it seems a good time to reflect on some of the lessons we’ve learned. Here are some nuggets I’ve picked up along the way…. Be willing to take all the blame – and to share the credit. There actually are stupid questions. Shun those who are cruel – and don’t laugh at their “jokes.” Never say you’ll never. Be on time. “Bad” people eventually get what’s coming to them. But you may not be there to see it. Always sleep on big decisions. Sometimes the grass looks greener because of the amount of fertilizer. Never email in anger – or frustration. And be extra careful when using the “Reply All” button. If your current boss doesn’t want to hear the truth, it may be time to look for a new one. Never pass up a chance to say “thank you.” If you wouldn’t want your mother to learn about it, don’t do it....